1) For the gentlemen below 30years to believe that she's truly older than them: The rate at which boys grow up to become men is alarming. They get so big easily that most tend to believe their age is equals to their size haHaha! No fear in approaching ladies because they've got the size and weight on their side Lol! Its so absurd when some man looking all fine and cute approach a single lady and conversation ensued, then it gets to what's your age? He says "29" and she's taken aback and tells him "31" and he says "Nah!" It can be. Of course it is. In pidgin english - "small body nor be sickness."
2)For her to have a large range of Suitors: It is a serious notion that African men like fleshy women. Not necessarily fat and fabulous but some flesh for them to hold onto. And if there's curve, *winks* the figure 8 or semi figure 8 is an added bonus. Too skinny or fat narrows the suitors. Ehen who nor like beta thing? Lol!
3) For her not to be intimidated by her married friends of younger and same age group: Hehehe! Ladies can attest to the fact that; our size increases after child birth. Everywhere gets fuller. Sometimes when a slim single lady is with friends that are mothers, its very easy to assume, the married one is older.
So, all my slim/skinny ladies let's go add some flesh. Cheers!