Societal - Some of you already know, experienced it and believe that the level of responsibility of single ladies at 30's is most times questionable by the society at large. It doesn't matter if you're Agbani Darego, Linda Ikeji or Ono Bello. If you go doubting I'll cite two incidents.
- A single lady was driving forward in a filling station to buy fuel and suddenly a car just speed and parked in front of her. A lady like her came out but wearing a double ring. And an argument ensued heatedly. As people tried separating them, the married one slapped the other. As she tried to retaliate, some man held her hand and started shouting "you want to slap another man's wife abi? Them go just beat nonsense comot from your body." The poor lady was devastated. I cried too on her behalf.
- Another incident was at five junction Benin, during the road construction 2013. I was riding with a friend, I must tell you James Bond needs to employ her as a driver. The hold up was thick but she kept maneuvering her way through. From no where some man started insulting us " All these Benin ashwo small small girls don carry motor dey misbehave for road." Of course, in the process of correcting the man, she took her hand from the steering wheel. Oh my goodness! This man started apologizing profusely when he noticed she was married and a proper look showed the baby in the car seat in the back. And many more. Funny world. Ones personality is judged based on a double ring.
Medical - This is not to scare but to keep you informed. I'll explain in a literal way. Because the medical terms are way too big and scary Lol! Well, medicines says; there's a steep decline in women's fertility with age. So, if you can avoid the worry and scare, please do. Now I'm not saying go be all desperate and pin down some man with pregnancy but be sincere in what you want in a man and be settled.
Personal - This may not be 100% true or even 70%. They're my personal observations.
- The suitors thins out. And some times, you have men younger than you seeking you out. Even the ones that are older wants to make you feel they're doing you a favour and expects you to make it easy.
- If you happen to be the working class and unlucky, you'll be meeting men that keeps expecting to gain some financial assistance from you Lol!
- Games men play can be terrible. Some just want to come grab some share (you know what I mean) and off they go with a piece of your heart. That's why I've always encouraged Ladies to keep sex out, until he takes you into his home honourably. God is ever faithful. Cheers!