Well, lets get down to some real business; change they say is the only constant thing in life. How you handle the phases/changes in your life is what will determine the lasting impact it will have. You made a deal, the moment you said 'I do' not to no longer live for yourself only but also for someone else and the many more that will come tagging along after some months. Being a woman, your duty is on an automated resumption calender of being a care-giver. Meaning; in the welfare department your needs may be at the very bottom. And this maybe too much to handle because of all that you'll be giving up on. Hmmm! I'm not to keep going round the table like this but I need you to be able to drift along, hence the circled writings.
A Quick Analysis of the Different Stages of Change.
- The moment a lady says 'yes' to a marriage proposal, there's a beginning of an inner beauty being reflected, a serene peaceful wrap around her and the extra need to smile, laugh over, even the most idiotic jokes. Then, the marriage plans begins and the worry lies draws the brows together; worry over getting things done properly and for the success of the day. That the once buoyant attitude gives way to a snappy one. I believe this is when friends usually comes handy or a wedding planner if one can afford it. By the way, the old women in the village are all suspect until the wedding is over. Hence the need to bind and rebind until the ropes will protest and even then, no loosing. Lol!
- After the wedding, the most beautiful journey begins and the discovering of the pleasure of physical intimacy and sexual fulfillment (Closes eyes with one hand and continued typing with the other *winks*). The beauty of it is that; no matter how skinny a lady is, there's addition of flesh and curves in the right places. In some cases, the lady might become fat if such is in her linage. And that marks the beginning of wanting what was once there.