Tuesday, February 23, 2016

Note to my Single Ladies: Graduating Rules from being 'Single to Married' by Rita Oviri

NOTE TO MY SINGLE LADIES . Before you start being miserable about not getting married at your age. First have you take out time to examine yourself on what could be wrong about you. Considering the fact that you are beautiful, sexy and intelligent and yet you're still not married. And getting even more miserable is when your ugly looking neighbours are all married and you "Queen Elizabeth " still single? And sometimes you tell yourself but I cook better and I can do house chores very well. My dear stop stressing your head. Any girl can cook n do all that but not everyone is a wife material. Please join me in this expository walk. In Proverbs 18:22 the bible said he that findeth a "WIFE " has found a good thing.
Now the bible didn't say a girl or a woman it says a wife. The question is are you a wife girl or a woman? I know what might be going through your mind... "but every girl/woman is a potential wife"..... "Yes" but it takes a lot to graduate from being a girl/woman into being a wife. Because a wife is a help MEET not a help MATE . There's more to being a help meet. It takes a whole lot it requires lots of mind, self training, determination, selflessness, character, wisdom, being able to share, give and to love.

Your sole purpose is to complete the man that's why you were called a help meet. You are not meant to only come to the table to collect. You are also expected to bring something to the table that you two can share. Your role is to complete him, mentally, psychologically, emotionally, socially, spiritually and financially. And this is to mention but a few. Proverbs 31:27 said" she looketh well to the ways of her household and eateth not the bread of IDLENESS ". So you see from the scriptures that it takes more to being a wife than a girl. Marriage doesn't solve the issue of loneliness.

The bible didn't say it is not good for a man to be lonely. It says is not good for a man to be "ALONE" marriage is not a cure for loneliness it's for ALONESS. Hence you were made to be a help meet. Before you start being miserable about your singleness you should ask yourself do I meet the above  criteria? A good book said 'you don't prepare in marriage you prepare for marriage., If you must be found you must first be a WIFE.......


  1. Hmmmm . . . wise words. I agree that a woman has to be a wife before getting married. So true.

    However, I think a woman and a man who are complete in God should rather COMPLEMENT each other. They enhance their walk towards fulfiling God's purpose.

    Nice blog, sweetie!


  2. Wow........i think more of these words should be let out of your spirit. Great words

  3. So many wise words in just a few. Good stuff!

  4. Nice write up. In as much as Self development is key to becoming a wife,knowing your purpose on this planet is also crucial as it can help you know your match so that you both can fulfil destiny together.#KipItUp