No one is perfect so, stop the expectation of the ‘no blemish or white as snow character,’ but be assured God has done the finished work to clean up the stinks. What offense do you think you can’t forgive anyone for? And why you decide to spend so much energy holding on to a grudge rather than reconciliation. Because a grudge can only make you sad and reconciliation can only bring peace.
To forgive they say is divine so, let your divine nature manifest itself by letting go of yesterday’s hurt and focus on today’s plan. God has got a good one for you. Go grab it with the intention of seeking peace with all men. Jeremiah 29:11