"There is nothing like being married to someone you actually just LIKE! I don't mean love; love is absolutely important but I mean someone you just like; that is, even if there was no emotional attachment, your spouse will still genuinely like you and want to be around you A Lot, and vice versa.
I have come across men and women who I like just because of how they are and certain traits they posses. Please make yourself a likeable person; accept your wrong doings and apologise when you need to. Be responsible, be thoughtful, be humble; be respectful, have a sound character, be teachable, be tolerant, etc. Work on yourself to reflect traits that people just generally like in a person. It makes a difference when your spouse actually likes you, you know!It's so funny, when people talk about my husband and how he is, I realise that I genuinely feel the same way they do. There is no greater feeling than that" .