Tuesday, September 20, 2016

Paternity Fragility when Promiscuity is the Day's Order.

Sex is a long thing. Let's forget about the spiritual implication and the actual act to think on the aftermath (outcome or end product). I pray you realise how lengthy sex could be when you're done with your thoughts. The resultant effect of such act is the reason many men are fathers to other men babies because they couldn’t keep their zipper up or shelter themselves the way the world encourages them to do.
Of course, only the woman can tell who the father of her baby is. And whoever she points the finger at becomes that father. It doesn’t matter if she had sex with three men in one day.

I will narrate these two stories that  I pray will help you zip up instead of sheltering because shelters sometimes do have leaking roofs.

A young lady had a serious boyfriend and a sugar daddy both willing to marry her. But she was buying time for her boyfriend to get a good job and be able to take care of her needs before quitting the sugar daddy relationship. However, she got pregnant. Unfortunately, she had slept with both men unprotected same day and couldn’t be sure of who the father is.

She decided to marry the sugar daddy because he’s the one that could afford to take care of the bills. The funny part is, the men do not know about her having sex with them same day even though they suspect her of double dating.
And until there's eventuality, the true paternity of that child will never be revealed.
Also, a young girl that’s mentally imbalance (partially imbecile to say) live in a neighbourhood where the men took advantage of her situation and took turns to sleep around with her. A young man Dan (not real name) also took part in this escapade and later, the girl announced she was pregnant and Dan is the father.
He couldn’t believe it, especially; it was no secret quite a good number of men around had slept with her. Well, she insisted and his parents decided to take care of the girl. But, he moved out of his home.
The girl was well looked after until she went into labour. Dan was called but he was as angry with his parents as much as at when they initially took the pregnant girl in. He actually prayed the baby should die because he couldn’t bear having his first child this way.
Sadly, his prayer got answered and the baby died shortly after birth. The lady went back to her home a month after the incident. As for Dan, he’s the one helping to tell others to keep their zipper up if they do not want complication in their relationships.
Dan wasn’t the richest of the men that had sex with the young girl. So, among all the reasons for the girl to say he’s the father you should not bother considering wealth.
So to all baby papa’s or daddies, you just might want to review your paternity status inorder not to be like Marcus in Tyler Perry Movie “for better, for worse” who paid for child care over 11 years for a child who wasn’t his. 1 Corinthians 6:18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.
Again in the words of my dear brother Gabriel Akinyomi “sex is a long thing, forget about the spiritual implication been revealed and the actual motion involved. The way a man excitedly call or expects a call from the lady he had a date with and liked to have more than that, so does he wait for a call from the lady he had sex with but do not want to go further than that. However, the emotion attached to the waiting is that of anxiety and not excitement.
When the call eventually comes through, he’d hope the discussion will be neutral and on simple issues until the bomb shell of pregnancy is dropped. That will take 9 months to live through his sexual act. But it won’t end there, the child will be born and that will be a constant reminder of how lengthy sex can truly be”.
The aspect of getting infected through sexual act and having to live with it, is a story for another day.
Hence, doing it the Lord’s way is always and will always be the best option for the long duration of sex. 1 Thessalonians 4:3 For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.

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